2/27/2008

People do change

It has just occurred to me, well not right now, but I have recently thought about it. People do change, peoples feelings change, thoughts change. Nothing is ever forever and that is true. What you go thru makes a difference and changes you, how you think in that exact moment makes a difference. The past make you who you are today, and what you do today changes tomorrow, I think that is so beutiful, it makes you in controll and thats something I personally seek in the choices and doings I do.
In my last relationship I lacked controll, but I stayed because of devotion and love. That changed me, still have the devotion and love part in me, but I keep the controll part a little more in centre now. But I've met a couple of people in my life that has taken to control part to far.
Sidenote: "In psychology-related slang, control freak is a derogatory term for a person who attempts to dictate how everything around them is done. In some cases, the control freak sees their constant intervention as beneficial or even necessary; this can be caused by feelings of superiority, believing that others are incapable of handling matters properly, or the fear that things will go wrong if they don't attend to every detail."
When I see people from my past, or people that I havnt meet in a while I always find it interesting. Maybe not always nice or fun, people could change into the worse. Meet those to, and heard the stories, pated the shoulders.
Ah well. Just some thougts right now. People around you do change, and you aswell, you outgrow people, you lose feelings, you gain feelings. Fact. I keep hearing the words "The definition of beeing crazy is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting another result.", just another sidenot I guess.

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